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What Bad Things Has God Given You?

Job replied, “Should we accept only good things from the hand of God and never anything bad?”    Job 2:10  

When I was an OB/GYN resident at Bethesda Naval Hospital, we had morning rounds every weekday. During this time each resident would present the history, diagnosis, and treatment of each of the patients she/he had been assigned. There were times the attending physicians (those who were ultimately in charge of all patient care) would praise us for our technical abilities or diagnostic skills. But there were many instances of criticisms from the attendings, or even worse. Once I was asked to report the very next day on endometriosis, a benign gynecologic disorder that can cause pain and infertility. My attending wanted me to outline the causes of the disease, diagnostic testing options, and the therapeutic modalities. I was up most of the night preparing this paper due the next day. It was painful. It was humiliating to be called out in front of my fellow residents. And yet it helped me to not only learn about endometriosis, but to develop the habit of doing the necessary research to benefit my patients each and every day.

Job is described in chapter 1 as a man who was blameless and a man who had complete integrity. He loved God and followed His commands in his life. We read that Job was a family man who prayed and sacrificed for his children. He had been blessed with wealth as he was selfless, hard working, and humble. And then we read that he lost his farm animals, his sheep, his workers, and his children. If such losses weren’t enough, Job then lost his health. As he sat in agony with boils covering his entire body, Job responds to the the advice of his wife to curse God with a very insightful question, “Should we accept only good things from the hand of God and never anything bad?”

This is a tough question. None of us ever want to receive bad things. But before I think about what it means to receive something bad from God, I think about what it was like to endure morning rounds at Bethesda Naval Hospital. Those were bad times. I dreaded the hour from 7-8am every weekday. And yet I learned to develop the intellectual discipline necessary to care for my patients throughout my career as a physician. I have even learned to accept the good with the bad from my friends which has taught me innumerable lessons about unconditional love, forgiveness, honesty, trust, and transparency that have made my life richer.

And so I resonate with Job’s rhetorical question. Some of the greatest blessings in my life have come to me when I have embraced the bad things from God. When I pray for humility, he brings morning rounds into my life. When I pray for a deeper love of humanity, he shows me the need to forgive. When I pray for insight, He uses the Word to expose my need to change a habit. And when I pray for forgiveness, he shows me how I need to confess my faults. Perhaps we should be thanking God more for the bad things He gives us than the good things!  

 

Three Ingredients of God’s Love

We all want to love and to be loved. The Bible tells us that God is love. We are told that God loves us. So why do we sometimes doubt that we are loved? Why do we have a hard time loving ourselves and others? Could it be that what we love, how we love, who we love, and why we love is determined by our response to God’s love? Paul describes three ingredients of God’s love. We can experience true love when we accept these three ingredients that God supplies…

The purpose of my instruction is that all believers would be filled with love that comes from a pure heart, a clear conscience, and genuine faith. (1 Timothy 1:5)

And so the three ingredients of love are: Purity, Transparency, and Faith. Purity only comes from God when we accept His righteousness. We obtain His righteousness by opening our heart to Jesus who is knocking at our heart’s door. When He comes into my heart, everything changes. So at the core of love is Jesus. Love comes from the heart. Love is grounded in a relationship with God, not in rules. But when I accept Jesus into my heart, He brings purity that will affect everything I do. (See Proverbs 4:23)

The result of a pure heart is transparency. Jesus living in my heart gives me the courage to be transparent. I can only truly love and accept love when I take off the mask I hide behind and let people see who I really am. Transparency is a way of life. When I let people see who I am, fear loses it’s grip in my life. (See 1 John 4:18)

Faith in God, in others, and in myself is the final ingredient of true love. When used in the context of love and relationships, we think of the word trust rather than faith. But it’s the same word in the Greek. Without trust, conflict is divisive and destructive. Without trust, I am suspicious of everyone. Without trust, I am alone in the world. Without trust, there can be no love.

What do you fear? Will you live from the heart? Will you allow the purity of Jesus into your heart? Will you be open and take off the mask? Will you trust Jesus with your heart? Are you ready to experience love today?

 

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